I want to make this simple for you. I will give you Three easy steps to Improve your approach. These steps will not only help you at your local coffee shop, but have allowed my partners and I to talk to girls from all over the globe. Yes globally, whether I have been in Brazil, with little knowledge on how to speak portuguese, or on the other side of the Atlantic, in Greece. These three quick tips are Proven, Easy and most important Fun.
Lesson one. Eye Contact
Whether you are walking to class, on a subway train, exploring a national monument, eye contact is HUGE. Eye contact is a signal of interest, like holding a hand out to hail a cab, but less aggressive. Your eyes say, "Hey I find you interesting". Literally as guys we catch ourselves looking at women all the time just for a second out of a spark of interest. Own that spark, find out why that person caught your eye gaze for split second. Don't act as if you can't look at Art in a gallery because you can't afford it. It's a game of chess, when they spot you looking at them. Women, they will notice and are very in tune with their surroundings and how aggressive guys can be. Show your confidence and slowly you will soon be casually getting closer to each other for the sheer fact of curiosity.
Lesson Two. Smile
Practice smiling, we are in 2014 guys smile. As comedians joke girls go to clubs to just dance "Dane Cook". Even if this were true, if you're the guy at the club, coffee shop, art gallery, best friends wedding, with the plain face, or even worse hard ass face. You will just be that, Plain, Boring, Unnoticeable. You want to be the guy that says, I am getting a Raise Today, This wedding is AWESOME, I am Excited to be here! You attitude adds value to peoples lives. So when you catch a girls eye, notice the catch and smile, your whole world has already opened up. These two simple steps are a primal language, that breaks all barriers.
Lesson Three. Be you
Guys how many times have girls said this to us, just be yourself. Here is a tip, girls are not telling you to be the guy that jams away on video games all day, when she knows you used to go for runs for fun. Be you Means - Be your Best Self! Go to video game expos, if your are that die hard, come back with a story. Don't just spill chips on yourself at home. If you talk about vacations that you never go on than you're not being you. You want to skydive don't do it in Call of Duty, Schedule that shit on Facebook if no one shows up, Boom you're a confident guy who jumped 30,000 feet out of a plane by himself. Honestly scared shitless, wishing he had that confident girl right there to hold is hand. You tell people friday night stories like this they will listen, and ask for more. Being the Best you, leaves no room for I have no idea what to say to her.
The Breakdown.
Bump into a cutie at the coffee shop, 1. Catch eyes, 2. Smile, 3. Be the Best you, you'll end up saying, "hey, I can't believe we ordered the same drink. You must be an interesting girl. I would love to chat but I have ballet lesson to attend. I wish we could have a longer moment to talk. Lets exchange numbers, matter of fact you should come with, I am in need of a trusted dance partner." Think she won't be blown away? You think even if she has a pretty nice boyfriend, who is at home right at that moment drinking mountain dew and eating last nights pizza she won't be inclined to give you her number expecting you have too much going on, you may not even call her. If you call her, her man, probably won't even notice. Being You opens doors. Being you brings you around all kinds of people you want to be around.
Enjoy.
Have fun, go out an use these quick tips and watch doors open; come back with a story. Follow The Flamingo.
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